Hope Floats Up

My name is Erika Wise, Program Director for Star of Hope’s newest program, New Horizons. I accepted Christ as my personal Savior when I was eleven--at church camp. My relationship with Christ has been filled with peaks and valleys. My intimate walk with Him began nearly 18 years ago when I was hired as a Case Manager for Star of Hope’s TLC program. Since then, I have held many positions with Star of Hope and worked in THREE of its programs—TLC; Women & Family Shelter; and, now, New Horizons. I have been able to see hurting families and individuals journey from “lost” to “found”. One of my favorite movie quotes is from the movie “Hope Floats”—“Beginnings are scary. Endings are usually sad, but it’s what’s in the middle that counts. So, when you find yourself at the beginning, just give hope and chance to float up. And it will.” My years at Star of Hope have taught me that HOPE certainly does float up and, those are the stories I want to share…

From Ending...to Beginning

Thursday, January 26, 2012 by Erika Wise

With Endings...come new Beginnings...

“Beginnings are scary. Endings are usually sad, but it’s what’s in the middle that counts. So, when you find yourself at the beginning, just give hope and chance to float up. And it will.” quote from "Hope Floats"

On December 17, 2011, two families "ended" their three years in Star of Hope's New Horizons Program. Cheri L. and Sandra H. were the first to complete all three years of this "new" program. And, though a happy occasion, there was some sadness, too.

Cheri and her boys are doing well and prospering. Cheri (top) is a personal banker and well on her way to financial stability. Gabriel (middle) has attended the same school for three years and has been recommended for the 'gifted and talented' program. Thaddaeus, also called T.J. (bottom) was enrolled in Kindergarten this year and he is also being considered for the 'gifted and talented' program.

Sandra (far left) is pictured here with her daughter Keiara and two granddaugthers. Sandra has been working for the same employer for a year and has been considered for promotion. She also has an opportunity to return to a previous employer and pursue further career options there. Keiara graduates school in the Spring and has already been accepted to a college of her choice. Though Sandra is wary of letting her daughter go off to college, she is very proud of her, too.

With Endings...come new Beginnings...for Cheri and Sandra's families and for our programming. We are beginning a BRAND NEW program called New Haven. New Haven is a permanent supportive housing program for single women who are suffering from mental illness. Once stable, these women will be placed in their own apartment homes and offered supportive services; such as--case management, counseling, recovery classes, self-advocacy instruction, and much more.
We are excited about what the future has in store for our departing families and for those single women who will come into New Haven. We trust that God will lead these precious families and women AND our staff as we continue to speak and pray His word over their lives.

"I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it."
John 14:12-14

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*Photos courtesy of Gary Matthews of Ensorce Photography.

Hope for Christmas

Monday, December 12, 2011 by Erika Wise

As we celebrate Christmas, let us know that our hope is not found in man, the gifts others give, but in the 'baby' that came so that we may truly know the hope of man!

Christmas is a joyous time for many...but, for those struggling financially and emotionally, it can leave them with little or no hope. The Star of Hope--its staff and programs--are here to show guests and clients of the true Star of Hope--Jesus Christ.

For nearly 20 years, we have had the Adopt-a-Family Christmas Program for those who have left our programs and may be struggling their first year or two out on their own. Church groups, families, and companies call asking to help make Christmas special...it is no small miracle that these families and individuals who need help receive bountiful blessings of gifts, support and love from perfect strangers!!

This week, I received an email from someone in need. Here is some of what she wrote:

"I was married on October 5th, 2011...just a few months ago. We found out I was pregnant shortly thereafter...my "husband" told me on November 5th that he no longer loved me, and did not want to be married to me...I was living the fairytale until we moved into our home just a week after being married...He has no concern now for me, Clayton (her 8 year old son), or our unborn child...I am completely in a bind and don't know what to do about Clayton's Christmas. The reason that I am so concerned is that I have always been able to provide him a very good Christmas from Santa. It breaks my heart that because I put my trust in a man my son is now suffering."

This story is all-too-common. Mothers and their children are spending Christmas looking for a safe place to stay...someone to care...some hope...

Through the generosity and gifts of donors and volunteers...*Sherry and Clayton--and, her unborn child--will be blessed with gifts and love this Christmas.

I think back to that first "Christmas" night...a pregnant woman carrying the HOPE of the world...And, that is what we celebrate this time of year.

"The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him 'Immanuel'--which means 'God with us.'" Matthew 1:23

*Names changed to protect privacy/confidentiality.

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Hope Floats Up, Even In The Hardest Of Times

Friday, November 11, 2011 by Erika Wise

God provides in the most unique and profound ways…and, three of Star of Hope's New Horizons Residents are experiencing that right now!

Experiencing a job loss is something MANY can relate to when this country has an unemployment rate near 10%. But, the issue strikes too close to home for Curly, Sharon and Pam.

When asked “What do you want for Christmas?”—children are not answering with the usual “bike, doll, or other toys.”…they are saying, “I want my Mom to have a job.”

Sharon and Pam struggle with their job search. Both laid off from their jobs months ago, struggle with the stigma of a past that will not go away. The ladies know how to dress for an interview; they have wonderful personalities and answer their interview questions well; and, they show genuine desire and interest in working for the company/organization for which they interview. Those who interview them say they would like to hire them right away…but, “we have to do a background check.” REJECTION comes with a phone call that says, “I am sorry, but we do not hire felons.”

And, then there is Curly. He is kind, has a good work ethic, and is very skilled. However, he is older than most of the others who are applying for the same positions he is. He is a half-step slower than the younger men, but his knowledge and work ethic far outshine that of his rivals. He has knowledge in how to fix cars and just about every home appliance you could think of. He makes his portion of the rental payment by collecting his unemployment and doing odd-jobs to raise the funds.

“Who will give me a second chance, Miss Erika?” is the question posed to me. I truly wish I could answer that question.

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Hope Floats Up - From a Distance

Monday, August 1, 2011 by Erika Wise

When I answered the phone Friday morning, I noticed the out-of-state area code. I was uncertain who would be on the other end of the call when I picked up the call.

"I know someone who is at your shelter," the caller began, "and, I looked up Star of Hope on the Internet and that's where I got your name."

I immediately began the "rote" answer in my head "I'm sorry, we cannot give out information on client who may or may not be in our program. You can leave a message and IF he/she is a client, the message will be left." But, the words never left my mouth.

That is not what this caller wanted. *Julie just wanted to know more about Star of Hope. The story unfolded...

*Gina, was in Julie's youth group at a church in Tennessee MANY years ago. As a 17-year old, Gina was involved in programs at the church and became close to Julie and her family. Now, eleven years have passed...Gina's family has disowned her; three failed marriages behind her; drug and alcohol abuse; seeking love in all the wrong places...and, the police brought Gina to the doors of Star of Hope's Women & Family Emergency Shelter.

"She's there," Julie told me. "She called me from there last night and there was someone there praying for her. I think a staff member. And, we have been texting this morning. Can you please help her?"

I explained to Julie that Gina was in a safe place. I told Julie that our staff are loving and care for each person who walks through the doors. I told her our mission statement and that we are a "Christ-centered" community. Julie was glad to hear that...she had been thinking of sending Gina a bus ticket to come back to Tennessee, but felt confident in Star of Hope's ability to care for her friend. "She's lucky to have someone like you, who cares about her, even if you are far away right now," I told Julie.

"She's hit rock bottom," Julie shared.

"That is where God takes us sometimes," I reminded Julie. "Sometimes He puts us in a place in life where all we can do is look to Him and the grace and mercy he supplies."

Julie was comforted that her friend would received God's love through the staff at the Women and Family Shelter.

When I hung up the phone, I called the staff at the Women & Family Emergency Shelter and asked if they would follow up with Gina. They did...and, she is excited about a future that will include a stay at our Transitional Living Center's New Hope program for drug recovery; finding a job and earning her own money; and, long term housing with the New Horizons program.

Gina has never really lived on her own...she is frightened, but comforted that Jesus said, "I will never leave you, or forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5).

She is able to only see a few steps ahead, but knows that she is on a pathway leading to the Lord, and that is enough!

*Names have been changed to protect privacy.

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Happy Third Anniversary - New Horizons!!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011 by Erika Wise

June 6, 2011, marked the official Third Year Anniversary of Star of Hope's New Horizons program. We moved in the first FIVE clients on June 6, 2008. While none of those clients remain in the program today--several left successfully before completing the entire 3 year program--there are a few in their third year now.

Sandra is excited about her future...she is working for Goodwill Industries and loves her job. While she was just diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness, she and her children continue to trust God with their present and their future. Sandra is concentrating on ensuring her children; Keiara-18; and Shawn-16; are ready for whatever life brings them. She prays that they know they are loved and she encourages them to dream for big, bright futures.

Cheri is gaining some ground. She felt she was spinning her wheels until recently. She had big dreams and plans that always seemed to be dashed at the last moment. However, she is getting those dreams and plans on track and the Lord is blessing her by placing encouraging, loving people in her path to help her along. Cheri was able to transition from part time to full time work last month; she was able to purchase a more reliable vehicle; and, she completed her FAFSA (financial aid forms) so she can return to school next month to complete her few more credit hours toward her BA in graphic design. She plans to leave this program a complete success.

As the staff consider the program since its inception, we have learned many things. The clients respond well to the spiritual and emotional encouragement offered through biblical counseling, Recovery Class, and Bible Fellowship. They encourage each other by offering to help when needed (see Artie's story "Please Pray for Me") and finding themselves as part of a positive community.

This past weekend, on June 4th, we had a Summer Fest. We reached out to our neighbors in the apartment complex and were able to encourage over 150 of our neighbors. "These are people we see every day in passing," Henry O. said of the event, "But, today I got to really talk to them and encourage them. They are nice people."

When we begin to see the next few "graduates" leave our program, we will know even more about them and the program's effectiveness. One thing we do know...we sure do have a great time encouraging each other with the Word of God and praying for each other, too.

Here are some of our kids who made some crafts for their mothers for Mother's Day:

We hope you will join us in the Summer of Hope and donate to Star of Hope Mission as we help our neighbors, others who are having hard times, and those who seek out shelter and assistance during these HOT summer months. Bless you and your families as you seek God's will for your lives!!

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"Please Pray for Me" Part 2

Monday, March 21, 2011 by Erika Wise

It is a humbling experience to be at the mercy of others during a time of injury, illness or their need. And, that is exactly what I am facing.

As Director of Star of Hope's New Horizons Program, I get to minister to the needs of others every day. I have the privilege of encouraging others in times of worry/distress and times of achievement/success. I also get to pray with others on a daily basis for just about anything and everything.

My clients have been concerned about my upcoming leave of absence for medical purposes. But, they are not concerned in the way we might think:

They are not worried if their rental subsidy will be paid;
They are not concerned as to whether the Community Prayer Time on Mondays will be canceled;
They don't ask about services which will be delayed or eliminated...

But, they ask...what can we do for you Miss, Erika. And, I have taken my cue from my client, Artie. When he was injured on the job recently...I asked him what we could do. And, he replied "Pray for me."

So, that is what I am asking..."Please, pray for me." I will miss all my clients, staff and the daily running of the New Horizons Program, but I know that all will be fine in my absence. The Lord will guide the staff and clients just as He will guide me in my recovery. Again, what an honor and privilege to be a part of the Star of Hope and this New Horizons "family."

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"Please Pray for Me"

Monday, March 7, 2011 by Erika Wise

It is a call every parent dreads...a call that your child has been hurt and is in the hospital.

Well, these clients are certainly not my children--many of them would cringe at the thought!! But, as I interact with them, pray for/with them, share their struggles and cheer their achievements--I feel much like a parent.

On Saturday, March 5th, I was told that one of the Star of Hope Mission - New Horizons clients had been injured at his job and was taken to the hospital. I immediately prayed, "God, please let him be alright!" I texted him...asked him to call when/if he was able.

He called right back. "I got hurt at work, Miss Erika." More details followed...then, "I have to have surgery on my leg." I asked him what we could do for him...could we bring anything, do anything??!! And, in the most humble, contrite spirit, I heard him say, "Please pray for me."

I can do that, I thought. "I will let everyone know to pray for you...is that okay." He agreed that I could tell the others in the program. I sent out the word that he was in the hospital and needed prayer--many of the clients texted back saying, "I will be praying!", "Oh, I just talked with him yesterday! I will keep him in my prayers."

And, that is why I do what I do...I get to encourage others, pray for them, and minister to them in their time of need. What better job in the WHOLE world??!!

UPDATE: I visited Artie in the hospital today. He is in a lot of pain and I was able to listen to his concerns, pray with him and encourage him...what a privilege and honor.

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Sometimes, All You Can Do Is Help Them Cry

Tuesday, February 15, 2011 by Erika Wise

He left the office with his two framed photos and an envelope of pictures...the only tangible memories of a year-long relationship with the woman he hoped to marry one day.

Back-story: I read an email one time:

"Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, 'Nothing, I just helped him cry.'"

Today, I was told that one of our New Horizons residents had lost his long-time girlfriend. She had become ill last week and succumbed to her illness within a day. This man, in his time of grief, was offering encouragement to others this past weekend. "Make sure you say the things you want to say to those you love," he said to another resident, "because, you never know when it will be your last day to talk to them."

This afternoon, he came to the office asking me if I could help him get some pictures off his phone and print them. So, that is what we did! For about 40 minutes, he emailed me the photos he wanted and I printed a few of each picture. I even framed a couple for him to put in his home. I was so blessed and honored to be able to "help him cry." He left the office with his two framed photos and an envelope of pictures...a few tangible memories of a year-long relationship with the woman he hoped to marry one day.

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Adopt-A-Family - 25 Days of Christmas Miracles

Thursday, December 16, 2010 by Erika Wise

There are miracles all around...if you just look. Many miracles are answered prayers; and that is what I want to share today.

Many people want to donate to Charitable Organizations Houston during the Christmas Season. Donating To Charitable Organizations is the stuff holidays are made of. Among other Shelters Houston Texas, Star of Hope is the recipient of many of these charitable callers. Many want to help in any way they can...one way we offer is the "Adopt-A-Family" Christmas Program.

Serving graduates of our programs--Men's Development Center; Transitional Living Center; and, New Horizons--the "Adopt-a-Family" Christmas Program matches donors with needy families/individuals to ensure they get gifts and other blessings for Christmas. This economy has been rough on many people--but the calls from donors wanting to help flows strongly!!

In the midst of a staff change, it was my pleasure to oversee the "Adopt-a-Family" Christmas Program--fielding the calls from donors, entering client data into the computer, and, matching donors with those in need. Many matches were made before the Thanksgiving Holiday and donors were asked to contact their families/individuals by 12/15/10 to establish rapport and begin communicating.

Well, there was a family who received NO contact. Christmas was just eleven days away and she was concerned that her son was not going to have Christmas. How was she going to make ends meet AND get Christmas gifts for her son; "He is so deserving," she said. "He made great grades and deserves to have a good Christmas even if I can't give it to him myself."

I emailed and called the donor several times--no answer, no contact. I was sitting at my desk THIS AFTERNOON praying to God to have the donor call me. What was I going to do if this little family did not have a match??!! The phone rang...

"Hi, my name is Denise, and me and my husband would like to help a family for Christmas if you have something we could help with."

God had provided for the family (a donor calling to be matched), and for me--I did not have to worry that this little family would be forgotten for Christmas!! A Christmas Miracle--YES; and, I got to be a part of it!!!

The best gift of all... "While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn." Luke 2:6-7

"25 Days of Christmas Miracles" - Sandra's Miracle

Thursday, December 2, 2010 by Erika Wise

Sandra has had a rough year...so many in our country have. But, as someone who has spent Christmas' past in OTHER people's homes--she is just so happy to have her own apartment with her children!!

Sandra has been unemployed or underemployed for nearly 18 months!! She has struggled to make ends meet--paying bills, paying rent, buying food and clothing for her children...it has been hard, but Sandra is resourceful.

Sandra has dreams--she wants the best for her children; she wants to return to school to study counseling and become a licensed drug counselor; and, she wants to help others become what God wants them to be.

A few months ago, Sandra got a part time job and was so happy. She loved the work she was doing and came in every day with stories of her co-workers, those she cleaned for, and how much she loved what she was doing. Then, she found out her food stamps were discontinued. Though she was working part time, she did not have enough money to pay her bills, including rent, AND buy all the food for the home. She got help from her family and food pantries around town.

Today--Sandra came in the office smiling and walking quickly toward me. I was hoping she would say "I have a job!!"; but, what she showed me was just as good for now--it was a letter from the state reporting that her Food Stamps had resumed as of YESTERDAY!! Sandra was so relieved because she has just spent the last of her final paycheck a partial payment of December's rent.

This was a true miracle--as in the movie "A Christmas Carol"--Sandra and her family will be able to have Christmas Dinner just like the Cratchit's did!! "Merry Christmas, one and all!!"

"In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you." 1 Thessalonians 5:18

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Hope for the Holidays!!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010 by Erika Wise

We ended the day in prayer...20 men, women and children having given "hope" to need families and individuals for the Thanksgiving holiday. What a blessing it is to be a blessing to others.

A group of 18 volunteers from City Life Church, Houston, TX, came to help the New Horizons and Follow-up Staff make 24 Thanksgiving Meal baskets to distribute to families and individuals in the programs. City Life Church wanted to find a way to do Charity Work Houston and Supporting Houston Ministries. They found a way to do just that.

Having collected food items which included green beans, sweet potatoes, rolls, and more; the group delivered the food and assembled the baskets.

All 24 baskets prepared...what next?? Some of the residents picked up their baskets--but, we got to deliver some, too.
Volunteers went with staff to deliver the baskets to five of our Follow-up clients. They were so excited to receive this blessing!!

We had a few baskets leftover...what were we to do with them. One of our New Horizons residents came in and asked if he could give on to his neighbor; another former New Horizons resident said he had a co-worker who was having a hard time. They wanted to know if they could have the extra baskets to give to these people in need.

What a wonderful thing to see--formerly homeless individuals reaching out to others in need. That is what this season of gratitude and giving is all about. These two men, Brian and Ken, KNOW what it is like to have nothing and receive grace and mercy. Now, they were on the other side of the exchange--they were the ones giving!! They loved it!!

The volunteers wrapped up with day with prayer and said--"We will be back!!" I love the holidays--Hope always floats up--especially around the holidays. I can't wait for Christmas!!!!

Hope Floats Up in the Gulf of Mexico

Tuesday, October 12, 2010 by Erika Wise

Henry is seeing God's blessings abound, and each day it amazes him! As he serves as a Chef on the ship in the Gulf of Mexico...he can see every day that--Hope Floats Up.

Henry came to the Star of Hope Men's Development Center after searching for Drug Rehab Centers Houston. Henry was hurt, broken, angry and addicted to drugs. While going through intake for the SIX MONTH Spiritual Recovery Program Henry was having second thoughts. "You mean I can't leave and go get some Popeye's chicken?" He was told he would not be able to leave the building for several weeks. This made him angry and he did not think this was for him.

At the moment Henry felt he could just walk away from the future God had for him, a man named Bill Jones walked by. He works for the Men's Development Center and he looked at Henry--recognizing a soul he had encountered before. He told Henry that he was EXACTLY where God wanted him to be and that he should STAY put!! Henry listened...and, he completed the program.

Henry also completed his culinary degree and was able to find a job quickly with a local catering company. Henry loves to serve others by feeding them. When Henry feeds--you get delicious food (gumbo, banana pudding, pies) AND the Word of God. Henry will not hesitate to share what God has done for him!!

Henry transitioned into Star of Hope's New Horizons program in 2009. Shortly after moving into his own apartment, the economy got so bad that the catering company closed. But, Henry did not lose heart. He searched for jobs and was blessed with a well-paying off shore assignment as a cook on an oil rig. He was able to catch up on his bills and put money in savings. He was financially comfortable for the first time in his life (at least LEGALLY!!).

Henry signed a new lease upon his return to "dry land". He said, "I have NEVER signed a new lease. I have always just left and moved somewhere else." Henry and his friends in the New Horizons program are learning what it is like to be responsible, happy, and content in all circumstances. Henry has found hope in the words:

"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."
2 Corinthians 12:9

Hope Floats Up on the Kemah Boardwalk

Tuesday, August 24, 2010 by Erika Wise

While the warm breeze blows in from the Gulf of Mexico on another HOT day in Texas...these men are grateful. They are continuing their journey of HOPE... together!!

Most of these six men entered Star of Hope's Men's Development Center (Drug Rehab Centers Houston) and did so "just in time." Some were on their way to an early grave; some had already been in prison and were on the verge of going back; and, all were tired of their lives and wanted something different.

Houston Emergency Shelter gives men, women and families HOPE. Whether it is drug abuse, family alienation, or our country's declining economy--Star of Hope shelters and programs are there to see that Hope Floats Up!

These men have their own apartments again--some for TWO years now! Charitable Donations Houston allow them the ability to have their own homes while still getting some encouragement and accountability in their lives. The Star of Hope New Horizons Program encourages these men to carve out a community of Christ-followers and lift each other up as they learn how to live these NEW lives.

Derrick Jones, New Horizons Community Pastor, used these words to describe the day (he went with them):

“After testimonies, bible study and prayer, it was time for us to travel to Kemah, Texas for recreational fun. We arrived in Kemah and ate a wonderfully delicious sea food buffet at the Lighthouse Buffet on the Kemah Boardwalk. After absolutely stuffing ourselves, we stood by the bay and watched as countless boats, yachts, catamarans, and jet skies went out into the Gulf waters. We listened to live music that was really relaxing and soothing to the weary soul. We progressed on and watched several magic, dance, and variety shows by extremely gifted entertainers. By this time, we were worn out by the day’s activities and events, and decided to return home. The men had a great time. After living lives that that never afforded them the opportunity to really enjoy life, these men who have given their lives to Christ had the chance to enjoy and appreciate God’s creation. They were greatly encouraged by the camaraderie that was forged on August 7, 2010. It was a great day to be a man – a man saved by the precious blood of Jesus Christ and in fellowship with other saved men!”

Hope Floats Up--even on the Kemah Boardwalk!! Praise God.

Hope Floats Up with TWO WORDS

Thursday, July 29, 2010 by Erika Wise

When Cheri heard the words, "Case dismissed," she cried--happy tears. This journey started long ago and, until now, there seemed to be NO HOPE.

Cheri was addicted to drugs and living a lifestyle most would condemn. She lived life one day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time...not thinking of the future. She didn't even really think she HAD much of a future...but, she had dreams.

When broken, hurt people enter Drug Rehab Centers Houston and Shelters Houston Texas, they are often just wanting the pain to stop. They cannot fathom a future...only today--make the pain stop for today! But the shelters and programs of Star of Hope not only help ease the pain by providing for spiritual, emotional and physical needs; but, we also encourage those we encounter to dream their dreams again. Addiction can cause people to stop believing in themselves, their dreams, and worst of all, God. Star of Hope helps people reconnect with their Creator and the One who promised:

“…being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:6

Cheri was one of those people. Broken, hurt and lost, she came to the New Hope Drug Recovery program at Star of Hope's Transitional Living Center. Her past haunted her as she began to look for jobs--an outstanding warrant for her arrest for charges pending. What was she going to do? With the help of a volunteer lawyer, Cheri was able to maneuver the system that, so many times before had knocked her down. Standing in that courtroom, knowing she could be sent to jail, praying for God's favor...and, then to hear..."Case dismissed"--she felt she was in a dream.

I told Cheri, THAT was not the dream--but all the dreams she has, to be a good mother who provides for her children, to return to school and finish her degree, to get a full time job in banking--would soon be coming true. Cheri is grateful to that lawyer, the judge who had mercy on her, Star of Hope for their role...but, most of all--God, for not giving up on her!! Hope floats up...

Hope in the Wilderness - Sandra's Story

Thursday, July 22, 2010 by Erika Wise

We all have our “wilderness” wanderings—much like the Israelites in the Old Testament. We have times in our lives when we have departed one place (Egypt) and are on to a new place (the Promised Land). Many who enter the Drug Rehab Centers Houston or Battered Womens Shelter Houston are doing just that--moving from one place in their lives to another. We hope and pray that there will not be a LONG wandering - 40 years - between our points of departure and arrival...but, truly, only God knows. Sandra has been "wandering" for some time now...and, I want to share a bit of her story.

I met Sandra nearly two years ago. She was a resident of our Transitional Living Center and getting ready to move out after being there for fourteen months. Sandra successfully completed the New Hope Program , Personal Development , and the WorkFaith Connection Program. Sandra had a job, money in savings and was paying her bills consistently for the first time in her life. She was ready for the next step.

Star of Hope's newest program (at the time), New Horizons, was exactly what Sandra needed. Living in her own apartment, with her children, and the supportive services the program offered, Sandra was certain she would be able to begin her new life as a sober, loving mother who wanted a brighter future.

Sandra hit the ground running! She searched for better-paying jobs and was soon rewarded for her hard work. Not too soon after moving into her new home, she got a job as a housekeeper for a local hotel. She was making a higher wage AND, even before she completed her probationary period, they targeted her for management...enrolling her into Manager Training classes. Sandra loved her work. Then...tragedy struck...

Sandra, on her way to the bus stop to go to work, was hit by a car. She was not injured badly, thank God. However, she was injured enough that she needed physical therapy and to be on "light duty." Her supervisor told her there was no "light duty" assignments...and asked her to call when she was released to return to work. But, they called her first--a month later, they called to tell her they were letting her go. They had to fill her open position. Sandra was hurt--physically from the car accident; and, now, emotionally from the loss of her job.

Thus began Sandra's "wilderness" walk. In the Bible, the Lord was with the Israelites--a pillar of cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night (Exodus 13:21). Sandra KNEW God was with her--because she had provision. God provided for her through the New Horizons program which was able to come alongside her for a time with HER portion of the rent; the program was able to help supplement her food pantry through Food Donation Houston; and, she gained support and encouragement from the staff and other residents in the program through prayer, cards, and hugs when needed.

Sandra's "wilderness" walk continues to this day (can you believe 15 months!!??)...she has searched and searched for jobs in Houston. She has applied in person, online and networked through several websites to find a position. She has not been idle, she has not complained (different from the children of Israel), and she has not given up!! During her time in the wilderness Sandra has accomplished the following:

*started her own cleaning business--SGH Cleaning Services (all that is left to do is obtain the bonding)
*served others by making sandwiches and cupcakes and taking them to Soup Kitchen Houston (at SEARCH Homeless Program)
*involved herself in the lives of her children (visiting their schools, attending counseling programs with them)
*attended Recovery Meetings, Bible Studies, and other meetings to offer HER testimony and provide encouragement to others
*helped several other families get into the Transitional Living Center when they found themselves homeless and in need of help
*recognized a desire to help others who are addicted to drugs and alcohol--she wants to be an LCDC

Sandra has been "wilderness" wandering--but, she has NOT been idle or lazy. She has times of depression--when rejection overwhelms her--but, the "manna" comes again in the morning (Exodus 16:14) and gives her the strength to continue. She has times when she wants to GIVE UP, but the water comes from the rock (Exodus 17:6) and refreshes her so she can fill out another application and go on another interview.

As I offer encouragement to Sandra, I keep telling her, "God has something GREAT coming to you." Sandra's Promised Land is out there...Sandra hears the Lord saying to her (just as he did Joshua) "Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." (Joshua 1:9b)

And, so we wait by the Jordan River for God's command to cross over (Joshua 3:14)...Sandra's Promised Land is waiting for her AND, while she is waiting--she finds "Hope in the Wilderness."

Happy Anniversary New Horizons

Friday, June 4, 2010 by Erika Wise

This month, June 6th actually, marks the SECOND Anniversary of Star of Hope's New Horizons program. In Supporting Houston Ministries, YOU, our donors, made this program happen.

We started this program in 2008--the economy had taken a drastic downturn--many Houston Non Profits were considering CLOSING their doors, while Star of Hope was creating, developing and introducing a NEW aspect of its service to the homeless.

Our FIRST FOUR units were filled on June 6, 2008. One of those gentlemen still lives in the apartment complex New Horizons calls "home." He has "graduated" from the program, but still keeps in touch with the New Horizons staff and encourages those in the program today.

One of our ORIGINAL residents is still in the program. Entering her third and final year, Sandra D. is still striving for her goals. She created a goal early on to conduct a job search and start working in the field as a Pharmacy Technician. Her credentials are sound, she has put in hours of searching, but the economic downturn has prevented her from changing jobs. She is still working for a gas station and she does not know what the future holds for her family. She has a spirit of gratitude for Star of Hope and all we have done to help her become stable again. Though she is not certain of her future in the healthcare industry, she is certain that her family is the most important thing in her world--she will do what it takes to make a way for them--and that does not include a return to homelessness!!

With the money management tools Sandra received while in the New Horizons program (Crown Financial Ministries) Sandra continues to make ends meet. She is praying for God's favor as she continues to search for Pharmacy Tech positions in area hospitals and pharmacies. Please join us in praying for her!!

Sandra and her children--Christmas, 2008!!
(Photo by: Gary Matthews of Ensource Photography)

The Storms of Life--Prayers Answered

Tuesday, June 1, 2010 by Erika Wise

Star of Hope is among many Non Profit Organizations Houston! And, during Hurricane Season, it has been one of the few Shelters Houston Texas which remain occupied during the some of the storms. The closest storm in my recollection--as for many of us--is Hurricane Ike, Fall of 2008. However, the stories I want to share today--the FIRST day of Hurricane Season--are from Hurricane Rita...

Still ministering to the evacuees and victims of Hurricane Katrina--a human flood coming from Louisiana and Mississippi to Houston and the surrounding areas--Star of Hope's Women and Family Shelter began to prepare for the landfall of Hurricane Rita. With the devastation of Hurricane Katrina still on everyone's mind...we were working with frightened, hurt, confused, abandoned and broken people leaving all they had--even loved ones--behind.

We as staff were used to working with those dealing with the "storms of life"--unemployment, drug addiction, abuse, and brokenness. But, this STORM was different--these precious men, women and children were clinging to the last few things they had left in this world--EACH OTHER!! The trauma was real...the fear was real...and, they were about to experience it all again!! Now these families and individuals faced a new threat; another STORM of life...Hurricane Rita...was threatening a direct hit to the Galveston/Houston area.

Outpouring of donations from all across America--Houston Non Profits, Christian Ministries Houston and Houston Non Profit Donations --SOARED. America responded to the material needs of the evacuees who fled to the Houston area. Food, blankets, clothing, water and other material items were coming in by the truckload...an answer to prayer!!

A few last minute buses were able to evacuate some of our residents (elderly, sick, very young)--an answer to prayer. The rest of us "hunkered down" in the cinder block safety of the Women and Family Shelter. I was among about 8 staff members who volunteered to "stay behind" and ride out the storm with the ones who had nowhere else to go or who could not be evacuated. That Friday night we held a Worship service--we prayed, sang hymns, and thanked God for His protection. All the residents and some locals who joined us went to bed early and staff began a vigil to pray and "watch this storm."

Of all the "storms of life" we had helped others through--this was the first one we could actually WATCH the progress and path!! We prayed for the storm to lessen--it was a Category 5; we prayed for the storm to turn--it was due to hit Galveston Bay directly. In the wee hours of Saturday, September 24, 2005, the storm came ashore in Louisiana as a Category 3 storm--answered prayer!

As we woke up Saturday morning (some of us had not slept), we found some wind damage and the lights were out--a generator provided some emergency lighting. Some of those Houstonians who had sought shelter with us as a "last resort" wanted to return to their homes and we all wanted to get on with life. As a few "relief staff" joined us later in the morning, we prayed again--for "light" and for transportation for those who wanted to return to their homes. As soon as we said, "Amen" and lifted our heads from prayer--a YELLOW TAXI CAB appeared in our driveway--an immediate answer to prayer! Staff talked with the cabbie and made arrangements to transport those who wanted to return home. The cabbie even returned to ensure all who had a place to go were taken there. We ate breakfast and lunch in the dim light seeping in through the skylights.

The mood was light, and happy as the residents rejoiced in God's protection, love and provision. And, as more staff began reporting to work to relieve those who had stayed through the storm...the electricity was restored at 2:00pm...it was only out about 12 hours--an answer to prayer!!

So, as this year's Hurricane season officially begins...and, predictions are made...I rely on the only thing I KNOW to be true---God answers prayer!!! In the midst of the storms of life--"hope floats up" as God answers prayer!!

"We wait in hope for the LORD; he is our help and our shield." Psalm 33:20

Aurora...alone no more.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010 by Erika Wise

I have met MANY hurting and lost people during my years with Star of Hope. One of the first individuals I encountered when I transferred to the Women and Family Shelter in 1994 was Aurora. Aurora told us that she was alone--she had no one. Star of Hope was one of the only Houston Homeless Shelters which would allow Aurora to stay...actually, THE ONLY shelter at the time!! You see, Aurora had been diagnosed with ACTIVE tuberculosis!!

Our first priority when there is any communicable disease is to contain it, care for those infected as best we can, and to prevent any further spread of the disease. Aurora was scared, scarred from former relationships where her family and others had pushed her away, and running from a past that was too overwhelming to consider. And, when she received her diagnosis, she did what she knew best--she ran away.

It was our intent to help her with all the Homeless Services Houston we could arrange...we had prepared a quarentine room, arranged to have her meals brought to her, AND discussed with the Harris County Hospital District on-site clinic how she was going to receive her medications (the City of Houston Health Department would visit EACH day to ensure she took her medication as prescribed). Well, all that concern and planning had been for nothing. Aurora was gone.

We, the staff, prayed for Aurora each time we met--lunch, meetings, ANY chance we got. We wanted Aurora to be safe and know she was loved. Aurora had never in her life known anyone who loved her unconditionally--love always came with a price. We began to understand that she was probably brought to the United States in a "human trafficking" scheme. She had been hurt, abused, and taken advantage of her whole life--why was she to expect any different from us??!!

Well, our prayers were answered when Aurora returned to the Women and Family Shelter a week after leaving. She was dirty, crying and broken. She said she "missed us." What a HUGE leap for her to show feelings!! We were honored.

Aurora returned to the shelter under the conditions that she would stay in her room until a doctor released her from her quarantine (about 6-7 days), take her medications, and wear a protective mask if/when she was leaving the shelter. She agreed to all the terms--she said that there was nowhere else for her to go and that she felt "safe" at the shelter.

In the next few weeks--miracles happened...Aurora abided by the rules and completed her quarantine time and her medication therapy. She started coming to chapel services and bible studies. She asked many questions about angels, Jesus Christ and God. She started reading the bible and prayed with staff. Aurora celebrated her 19th birthday with what she called--"the only family I've ever known"--the staff of the Women and Family Shelter. Three days later, Aurora accepted Christ as her Savior at a chapel service. She was baptized in a local church the following Sunday.

I don't know where Aurora is today--I have not seen her for over TEN years...I often think of her--childlike at 19 years old--where is she? what is she doing? does she have children of her own? The one thing I do know for sure...that she is not alone. Since accepting Christ as her Savior, she is assured that she will NEVER be alone again.

Never despise meager beginnings...

Thursday, May 20, 2010 by Erika Wise

When I got to Houston I searched for "Non Profit Organizations Houston". I wanted to work in an industry which would allow me to utilize both my sociology and religion degree to further the organization's mission statement. I was certain among the Christian Ministries Houston, I would find a suitable job. I was not certain I had any business being where I was. But, God had greater plans.

Flash forward three months---October 12, 1992--It was my FIRST day on a new job...I had just moved to Houston from Indiana. I was dressed in a nice sweater and skirt--I thought I looked professional. I was 24 years old and in my THIRD job working in Social Services. I was nervous, excited, hopeful, anxious, and ready for whatever God handed me. Well, almost ready.

I had been at work for two hours...I was overwhelmed! Thirty families, over 50 children, and I was supposed to know their names, ages, and needs!!?? What did I get myself into?? I was introduced to my shift-partner--what was her name, again? Oh, yeah, Denise. But, Denise What?

I thought I had just gotten the hang of things when a resident of the Transitional Living Center walked up to me. She was smiling, thankfully. Then, the assessment; she looked me up and down and said, "You won't last a week."

Oh, my...here I thought I had gained my footing; knew what I was doing...her statement had me reeling. Was I really in the right place? I prayed all the way home--asking God to reveal His will to me. Was I really where He wanted me to be??

By the time I reached my home (a 45 minute drive), I had my answer. I looked at the seat next to me with all my "first day on the job papers"...and, there ON TOP, was a little picture one of the children drew for me. "Welcome, Miss Erika," it said, scrawled in the crayon-handwriting of a child. That was my answer--hope had floated up...and, I was where God wanted me to be.

And, I still am...